Apart from exceptional doctors, high-end equipment, our humble experienced, dedicated team, and many other different things, one of the keys to success is, of course, our surrogate mothers. Finding a healthy, responsible, and willing surrogate mother is crucial! She becomes not just a carrier but a vital part of a couple's journey to parenthood.
HOW TO FIND A SURROGATE MOTHER?
Finding a surrogate mother that will agree to be your gestational carrier and that will cope with the task is a very complicated process, which is why it is usually perfomed by surrogacy agencies and clinics.
Learn how we select and test our surrogate mothers here.
With Perfect Surrogacy, the selection of a surrogate mother involves close collaboration between the intended parents and the Perfect Surrogacy team. It’s a thorough process designed to match the surrogate with legal and medical requirements specific to your case and ensure compatibility. Here’s how it usually works:
Choosing a Surrogacy Program Package
First, you have to choose a surrogacy program package with our Head-Coordinator. We recommend booking a free video consultation as the fastest way to start! At this stage, we will learn about your case in detail, including legal and medical requirements for your surrogate mother candidate.
Please note that the actual selection process for a surrogate mother begins only after the creation or shipment of embryos. Our reproductive specialist carefully matches a gestational carrier with the intended parents based on health, legal, and psychological criteria
Surrogate Mother Candidate Search
Perfect Surrogacy specialists are constantly searching for surrogate mothers. Usually, there are always candidates ready or in the process of undergoing medical checks and preparation for the programs. For SM Matching, medical compatibility is always a priority.
Surrogate Mother Candidate Profile Presentation
We present you with profiles of potential surrogate mothers with a photo, including detailed information about each candidate. If everything goes well, that match is made!
Review of Legal and Financial Aspects
At some point, we will make sure you understand the different aspects of the legal agreement with your surrogate mother. This agreement outlines the rights and responsibilities of both parties and addresses any legal and financial concerns related to the surrogacy arrangement. When the match is made and no questions are left unanswered, a legal agreement with the surrogate mother is concluded.
Meeting with your Surrogate Mother [Optional]
Some prefer to meet their surrogate mothers to know their personality, while others don't. If you wish to, you can meet your surrogate mother in person if it is possible, or via a video meeting. This meeting allows you to establish a personal connection and discuss any concerns or expectations. Watch SM Meetings and Interview Videos.
Sometimes a special bond between the IPs and the candidate is created at once, but some IPs hesitate and wait for a more suitable match from their point of view. Our experience shows that for a fast process, it's best to trust our head coordinators' expertise, as often we have special experienced surrogate mothers whose partition in the program can increase the first attempt success-rate dramatically!
Myths and FAQ about Surrogate Mothers.
In this interview, Anna, the founder of Perfect Surrogacy, and surrogate mother Oksana dispel the most common myths about surrogate mothers and surrogacy.
